September 2, 2005

On Nesting

Filed under: Just Plain Ranting

There comes a period in one’s life when the need to nest takes over. Being the eternal feminist, I once promised that I will never share my eccentric abode with a member of the opposite sex. Ever! But things have changed, a sheep has been cloned, Tom Cruise is dating Katie Holmes and hell has officially frozen over. That can only mean one thing, that I am in the “nesting stage” . My sister pointed it out. Didn’t really think anything of it, until she did :) The house that john has been building is finished. Well sort of. It can be lived on now. :) Its actually a nice place. I think of it more of a pad than a house really. Everytime I go up the stairs I feel like going up a treehouse and remembering the book that I just finished reading, Ann Rule’ s The End of the Dream. Ok, so maybe that’s not a good thing.

The treehouse is semi-finished. Maybe in a couple of months we can buy the rest of the stuff that’s not there yet, like the couch. There’s really no need to hurry but I am pretty excited about how it’s gonna turn out later.

What I never expected about this whole thing is how FUN it is! Really! So I had to be intimately acquainted with the toilet bowl ( I now know it’s every curve and orifice), had to do the woman thing and actually clean…But I had fun! It’s so mundane, so normal, just the kind of thing I needed. I’m happy.

Life is scary and it’s risky but that’s life. It’s supposed to be that way. (I’m saying this because I have decided to stay here, hence angering my parents) I feel free. It’s going to be tough. But I’m doing it my way from now on. My decisions, my mistakes. And I like it like that.